Holi

                              As we all know that our india is a country of festivals . We celebrate so many festivals with joy . We celebrate Diwali , ganesh chaturthi , navratri , and so on.. Holi is also a one of the indian festivals which is celebrated with very joy and happiness . Holi is a festival of colours . Holi is one of the famous festival of India . Holi is celebrated by different colours . Every indian festival have their own importance and every festival have some message for us . Holi festival also have a message for us . Holi tell us about victory of the TRUTH .  There is a little story of this festival that i would like to tell you all .

        Once there was a rude king named by HIRANYAKASHYAP (Hiranyakashipu)  . He was very rude and he thoughts , He is the GOD . He always force everyone to worship himself but his son named prahlad(prahlada) He never accepted this . He never accepted his father as a god . He was a devotee of lord VISHNU . As prahlad was a devotee of lord Vishnu his father was always against him . His father forced him to be my devotee not lord Vishnu but prahlad never listened to him . Prahlad was always busy in lord Vishnu's worship(Bhakti) .

                                            

   HIRANYAKASHYAP gave prahlad so much torchurs for his faith on lord VISHNU . When everything he tried on pralhad and it did not work on him then he called his sister named HOLIKA . Holika had a boon from God that she can not burn by fire . Holika and his brother made a plan to burn prahlad with the help of holika . When prahlad and holika both sit on fire then prahlad started saying name of lord Vishnu . Plan was about to hurt prahlad but this plan got totally opposite . Prahlad was safe inside the fire but holika burnt and died inside the fire . This was the power of lord Vishnu .

                             

 

      God always give us so many chances but once the limit crossed then we are responsible for ourselves . This is happened to king Hiranyakashyap . When king's torcher limit crossed then lord Vishnu came came out from a pole to kill the king . King  also had some boons but it did not work . That was a NARSINGH AVTAR of lord vishnu . It was half man and half animal(lion) . Lord vishnu killed the king Hiranyakashyap and the story of crudity finished . This story tell us the victory of truth . It doesn't matter how hard/difficult/strong is dishonesty or falsity but the truth will always win .

                                           

 HAPPY HOLI . SAFE HOLI . 

                   

Good vibes

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ईर्ष्या और हमारा जीवन

🌷एक बार एक महात्मा ने अपने शिष्यों से कहा कि वे कल प्रवचन में अपने साथ एक थैली में कुछ आलू 🥔भरकर लाएं। साथ ही निर्देश भी दिया कि उन आलुओं पर उस व्यक्ति का नाम लिखा होना चाहिए जिनसे वे ईर्ष्या करते हैं। अगले दिन किसी शिष्य ने चार आलू, किसी ने छह तो किसी ने आठ आलू लाए। प्रत्येक आलू पर उस व्यक्ति का नाम लिखा था जिससे वे नफरत करते थे।

अब महात्मा जी ने कहा कि अगले सात दिनों तक आपलोग ये आलू हमेशा अपने साथ रखें। शिष्यों को कुछ समझ में नहीं आया कि महात्मा जी क्या चाहते हैं, लेकिन सबने आदेश का पालन किया। दो-तीन दिनों के बाद ही शिष्यों को कष्ट होने लगा। जिनके पास ज्यादा आलू थे, वे बड़े कष्ट में थे। किसी तरह उन्होंने सात दिन बिताए और महात्मा के पास पहुंचे। महात्मा ने कहा, ‘अब अपनी-अपनी थैलियां निकाल कर रख दें।’ शिष्यों ने चैन की सांस ली। महात्मा जी ने विगत सात दिनों का अनुभव पूछा। शिष्यों ने अपने कष्टों का विवरण दिया। उन्होंने आलुओं की बदबू से होने वाली परेशानी के बारे में बताया। सभी ने कहा कि अब बड़ा हल्का महसूस हो रहा है।…

महात्मा ने कहा, ‘जब मात्र सात दिनों में ही आपको ये आलू बोझ लगने लगे, तब सोचिए कि आप जिन व्यक्तियों से ईर्ष्या या नफरत करते हैं, आपके मन पर उनका कितना बड़ा बोझ रहता होगा। और उसे आप जिंदगी भर ढोते रहते हैं। सोचिए, ईर्ष्या के बोझ से आपके मन और दिमाग की क्या हालत होती होगी?

 ईर्ष्या के अनावश्यक बोझ के कारण आपलोगों के मन में भी बदबू भर जाती है, ठीक उन आलुओं की तरह। इसलिए अपने मन से इन भावनाओं को निकाल दो। यदि किसी से प्यार नहीं कर सकते तो कम से कम नफरत मत करो। आपका मन स्वच्छ, निर्मल और हल्का रहेगा।🙏🏻

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समय ,सेहत ,संबन्ध इन तीनों पर अधिकतम
खुदरा मूल्य नहीं लिखा होता !
   
लेकिन जब हम इन्हें खो देते है, तब इनके मूल्य
का अहसास होता है !!
       
सोने से पहले हमें खुद से चार सवाल जरूर
पूछना चाहिए ?
1. कौन से तीन काम बहुत अच्छे से किये?
2. आज कौनसा काम बहुत जरुरी था,लेकिन
आलसीपन के चलते नहीं कर पाया ?
3.आज कौन सा काम करते समय लापरवाही बरती ?
4.कल के तीन सबसे जरूरी काम कौन से हैं ?
जो हर हाल में करने हैं___संभव हो तो घटनाओं की मानसिक रिहर्सल कर ले___
उसके बाद चेहरे पर हल्की मुस्कान के साथ
एक शानदार दिन के लिए भगवान/प्रकृति को
शुक्रिया अदा करें और सोने चले जाएं__
किसी के साथ "ग़लत करके अपनी "बारी का
इंतज़ार जरूर करें क्योकि
किस्मत जब तमाचा मारती हैं तो वो मुँह पर नहीं
"रूह" पर लगती है!!

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मैं धीरे-धीरे सीख रहा हूँ कि... मुझे हर उस बात पर प्रतिक्रिया नहीं देनी चाहिए जो मुझे चिंतित करती है।

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❛ख़ुद में रह कर वक़्त बिताओ तो अच्छा है,

ख़ुद का परिचय ख़ुद से कराओ तो अच्छा है..

इस दुनिया की भीड़ में चलने से तो बेहतर,

ख़ुद के साथ में घूमने जाओ तो अच्छा है..

अपने घर के रोशन दीपक देख लिए अब,

ख़ुद के अन्दर दीप जलाओ तो अच्छा है..

तेरी, मेरी इसकी उसकी छोडो भी अब,

ख़ुद से ख़ुद की शक्ल मिलाओ तो अच्छा है..

बदन को महकाने में सारी उम्र काट ली,

रूह को अब अपनी महकाओ तो अच्छा है..

दुनिया भर में घूम लिए हो जी भर के अब,

वापस ख़ुद में लौट के आओ तो अच्छा है..

तन्हाई में खामोशी के साथ बैठ कर,

ख़ुद को ख़ुद की ग़ज़ल सुनाओ तो अच्छा है..❜

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जब कोई “हाथ” और “साथ”

दोनों ही छोड़ देता है,

तब “कुदरत” कोई न कोई

उंगली पकड़ने वाला भेज देती है,

इसी का नाम “जिदंगी” है...!!

मुस्कुरा कर चलते रहिए..!!

सहयोग एक बहुत ही महंगी चीज़ है,

इसकी हर किसी से उम्मीद न रखे क्योकि,

 बहुत ही कम लोग दिल के अमीर होते हैं ..!!

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Navratri and it's nine colours

       NAVRATRI as name indicates nine nights . This is a famous festival of India . This festival is celebrated by doing worship of DURGA MAA . NAVRATRI is celebrated with lots of joy and happiness in India . NAVRATRI is a festival of nine clones /face/avtars of Maa Durga .This nine days indicates nine colours which includes Orange , White , Red , blue , etc..  each colours have different meaning .i.e.

  Day 1 - Ghastasthapana - Orange

   Goddess Durga is worshiped on all nine days of the festival so that she may usher in prosperity and good luck. The first day of Navratri, which is also known as Ghastasthapana, witnesses the holy pooja of the Goddess. The day is very auspicious as it is the start of the festival. The Goddess is dressed in orange attire on this day. According to tradition, people wear clothes of orange color on this day.

  Day 2 - Dwitiya - white 

The second day on which Goddess Durga is Worshiped as Brahmacharini, is known as Dwitiya. On this day, people worship the Goddess so that she bestows upon them emancipation, as well as prosperity. On this day people wear attires of white color. This form of the Goddess is considered to be extremely pious. 

Day 3 - Tritiya - Red

The third day of Navratri is known as Tritiya. On this day Goddess Durga is worshiped as Chandraghanta. Chandraghanta symbolizes bravery and fortitude. On this day the Goddess is dressed in a red saree.

Day 4 - Chaturthi - Royal Blue

The fourth day of Navratri is known as Chaturthi and on this day Goddess Durga is worshiped in the form of Kushmanda. It is believed that as the Goddess laughed, the universe generated. On this day, the Goddess is dressed in royal blue and people can be seen wearing attire that are of the same color. 

Day 5 - Panchami - Yellow

The day five of the festival is known as Panchami. On this day, the Goddess is worshiped as Skandamata, the mother of Kartikeya. People worship the goddess so that she may usher in peace and prosperity into their home. People seek the blessings of the Goddess. Yellow is the color of this day and devotees should be dressed in this color.

Day 6 - Sashti - Green

Day six is known as Sashti. Green is the color of the day and people are advised to wear attires of this color on Sashti. On this Day, people worship Goddess Durga in the form of Katyayani. According to a legend sage Katya wanted to welcome the Goddess as his daughter. To please the Goddess, Katya performed many formalities. The Goddess was finally pleased with Katya and took birth in his home as his daughter and was known as Katyayani.

Day 7 - Saptami - Grey

Day seven is known as Saptami. On this day, Goddess Durga is worshiped in the form of Kalratri. Kalratri, who is also known as Subhankari, means a dark and black knight. The Goddess not only protects her worshipers from all kinds of troubles and negativity of life, but also provides them with utmost happiness. Grey is the color to wear on the seventh day that is Saptami.

Day 8 - Ashtami - purple

Day eighth is known as Ashtami. On this day, Goddess Durga is worshiped as Maha Gauri. The attire that devotes will wear on this day should be of purple color. The Goddess purifies her worshipers and also forgives their sins. The Goddess as Maha Gauri performed a penance so that she may have Lord Shiva as her husband. During the course of the penance, dust accumulated on her body and Lord Shiva washed it with the sacred waters of the Ganga. Saraswati Mata Puja is also organized on this day.

Day 9 - Ram Navami - Peacock Green

Day nine is known as Navami and it is the last day of the festival. On this day, people worship the Goddess as she bestows prosperity on all her devotees. Peacock Green is the color of the day and devotees should dress in attire that is of this color.

Strong mind , strong life .

               Today we will talk about what is strong mind and what are it's benefits in our life and how can we make our mind strong to compete all the problems of life. A strong mind can give us all that things which we want from our life. A strong mind can help us to achieve our desire , our goals , our targets of life. A strong mind can help us to climb our stairs of success. A strong mind help us to stay away from the negativity around us. If you think that those people who are good in study have a strong mind then you are completely wrong. They have a good mind not the strong mind. A person who  can manage all the things in any condition or any situations have a strong mind. A person who can face all the struggles/ problems without making any excuses have a strong mind. A person who believes in himself even in the worst condition/situation have a strong mind. 

    According to a research most of the successful people have a common thing that is they have a strong mind. Which gives them the power to solve any problem which comes to them. So built a strong mind  and you will live a strong life.  

    

         A strong mind can build by learning new things everyday. Learning new things each and everyday. Not for a while , every single day. A strong mind develop when u don't have room for negativity , when u don't care about those who demotivates you. A strong mind can be built only when you are committed to your goal. You only work for your goal. You don't think about fail  you just think about your goal . When you accept failure then only you can be a srong minded person. 

      Zig Ziglar once said that, IF YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO LEARN NO ONE CAN HELP YOU, IF YOUR ARE DETERMIND TO LEARN NO ONE CAN STOP YOU. 

 BUILT A STRONG MIND AND LIVE A STRON LIFE. 

Overthinking

    Hello everyone, today i will talk about Overthinking. Do u guys know that Overthinking can kill our happiness? Yes it is true that Overthinking can kill our happiness. We all know that how much it is important to be happy. I have written about happiness and smiles in my previous blog. You can read it. I have given thier some points to be happy by ignoring something which is not necessary to think for us. Go and check it our by clicking here 👇

https://attitudeadiction.blogspot.com/2019/01/how-to-be-happy.html?m=1

   Now the question arises that why i am saying about Overthinking only?  That the reason is today's world is so busy, everyone is busy in their works and life. No one have time to to something for their happiness. Everyone is sad and in tension . Some have their work and office tensions and some have relationship tensions and some have their study and exams and so on... I can't tell you what tensions thay have because it is too much . This all things happens just because of our Overthinking . When we think this work is so hard for me then it'll definitely seems to very hard and tough to do. And if we think that i can do it. I will and it is so simple and easy then it will be definitely becomes easy for us . 

   

 

What are the disadvantages of Overthinking  ?                                                  

1. The most bad thing is, Overthinking causes depression .                            
2. Living in fear.                                                                                                        
3. Lack of confidence .                                                                                           
4. Complicates thing , and so on..                                                                         

So, just because of overthinking we losses so many things in out life .

So guys stop worrying and start living. Overthinking is nothing . It is just our mind's thoughts. So try to control your mind. If your mind started to control you then, it will show more negative thoughts than positivity.                

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Smiles

     SMILES ! This simple word means a lot in our life. Do u know smile is the best medicine for us. We can accept any easy or difficult challenges of life just by smiling. By just smiling we can avoid negativities and we all know negativities are the one and only enemy for us. Like pubg game we should alert our mind by saying "ENEMIES AHEAD" and we should go to "SAFE ZONE" Where these negative thoughts can not touch us , that means they can not affect us. Do u know our human mind thinks more negative thoughts then positive thoughts. It means we should control our mind cuz if we depend on our mind then 24 hours it will show us negative thoughts only. So we should make a habit of thinking positive . 

   * Why smiles are important for us ? 

      Smiling boosts your immune system because your whole body relaxes when you smile. When you're in a bad mood, smile – even if you don't feel like it – because it will immediately improve your mood. ... When you smile, people around you will smile, too. You'll spread joy with a good smile.       Scientists have found that smiling on purpose can help people feel better. Just the simple act of putting a smile on your face can lead you to feel actual happiness, joy, or amusement. Smiling on purpose changes brain chemistry. So it can be a big help to people who are dealing with depression and anxiety.

  I think now it has been cleared for you that how smiles are important in our life. There is no need of finding any reason for smiles. We can smile, when we actually want to do so.  

   Here is something which is also much important to know that is , always smiling is not so good . Nobody can give you this advice that you should smile at all moments. We should adjust according to the situations. So smile , and try to be happy but according to the situation adjust it. 

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Limitations is in your mind

 Hey after so many days my new blog is ready . Today i have brought some advisable things which you should read. If you goole that "what is limitations" Then you'll get result that THINGS THAT YOU CAN NOT DO. I want to say that what is that thing which we can not do? A person can do any impossible thing. But there are some limitations that we actually can not do that is wrong things is our limitation, irritate others, etc.. These things we can not do and this is actual limitations for us.  

 Now, i have an example of sandeep maheshwari sir  , example is there was a village and in that Village there were two boys one was elder and one was child. One day that elder one fall in a valley and there was no one to help him, then that child who was so young and also he wasn't so strong but ha rope and pull him up. When they reached back to their village ,they told everything to villagers but no one was believing on them but in that village only one was there who believed on them and told others that this is true and this all happens just because nobody was there who said to child that YOU CAN'T DO THIS! that's why this became possible to child to pull up the elder one from valley. At that time he believed on himself that's why this became possible. 

 

So just believe in yourself . You can do anything. Nothing is impossible for us.

Ask this question to yourself daily.

1. How are you ?
2. What you want?
3. How will you get it? 

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